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Gilly Montgomery
There
is such freedom when we are seen and accepted for who we truly are. There
is a relaxation, a deep letting go - peace comes with this recognition.
Sounds easy doesn't it? But who exactly are we? A simple question but
so profound that it shakes our very core, our existence, our being. In
fact to me this discovering is the journey, the meandering path that we
have chosen in experiencing our humanness.
There
are so many ways these days to delve deeper into ourselves: to heal, to
create goals, to let go of our less acceptable emotions, to speak out
more courageously. The reasons are many and various. But what of our perfection,
our wholeness, the bigger picture: do we remember to let it hold us as
we journey through our challenges? Do we give gratitude and enjoy the
simple, mundane pleasures in life and allow ourselves the luxury of laughing
at our warts, our weaknesses!
For
me it's a dance, a balancing act of searching on the one hand, and on
the other, dealing with the issues that arise with simple self-acceptance
and self love.
Last year I followed my passion for colour in a big way. This was the
next natural step for me. I had my 'colours done' around six years ago
which completely changed my life and many around me. I enthused endlessly
and encouraged others to follow suit and share the journey. I discovered
that the colours that really support me are very vibrant, highly contrasting
and extremely visible! For someone who had been wearing mellow, earthy
colours it was quite shocking and very exciting. I could no longer hide.
These colours have totally supported me in coming out in a big way with
new found joy and self-confidence.
So I was greatly inspired by myself and I followed this into training
as a Colour and Image consultant with House of Colour! This has brought
many challenges with it, especially the image or style aspect which addresses
the archetype.
One
of the things I really love about it is the different levels at which
this process can be embraced. For instance, those who want to acquire
the knowledge to dress more self-confidently, save money and learn the
nuts and bolts of personal dressing can do so. They can come and do a
colour class with two or three other people and return in a month or two
for the style day and just take it on a very practical level. However,
whether they realise it or not it is life changing and taking them to
a new place in themselves.
With change comes new openings, both exciting and challenging and issues
inevitably arise. So the other way I enjoy working with the Colour and
Image is to do five day residential courses.. These courses include the
colour analysis, style analysis, make up and practical aspects of individual
dressing. This is supported by rebirthing, dance, art, and deep sharing
spaces according to the group needs.
This is the gift for me, the colour and image being an essential cog in
the wheel that encompasses all my work and has opened up endless opportunities.
The Art and Science of looking and feeling good
A short history
In the creative environment of the Bauhaus Art and Design school in Germany
between the wars, Johannes Itten, a Swiss artist did a great deal of research
on the use of colour by the students. He observed how the students tended
to use different colour pallets and concluded that this reflected their
own skin tone. He produced a colour wheel which has been widely referred
to in the world of colour.
This
colour wheel is divided into four sections. Firstly it is divided into
two, the blue-based colours and the yellow-based colours and these are
divided again into the clear, bright colours and the soft, muted colours.
It follows that all the colours in the universe can be divided in this
way including our individual skin tones. In this colour analysis system
these four divisions are know as the seasons: so that autumn includes
all the yellow-based, muted colours; spring includes all the yellow-based,
clear colours; winter includes all the blue-based clear colours and summer
the blue-based, muted colours.
When Hitler came to power, the Bauhaus resettled in Chicago and more significantly,
in Los Angeles, at the same time as colour was coming into the movies
in Hollywood just down the road. Robert Dorr, who was an artist and knew
of Itten's theories on the blue and yellow based colours began to observe
the effect of the colours worn by the stars on the screen.
One day an actress would look wonderful in a colour and the next day she
may look 5-10 years older, tired and as though she had been 'out on the
tiles' just by wearing different colours!
He consulted his medical friends to see if there was any scientific basis
to this theory. It was confirmed that the fatty layer under the skin is
either yellow or blue based giving us the base to our skin tone - the
hue. This is the underlying tone not to be confused with the surface tone
which can be either sallow, tanned, tired, unwell and so on. It is not
just a case of looking at someone's skin to ascertain if they are blue
or yellow.
The film and TV industries are well aware of the effect that colour can
have. For instance, in soaps, dressing the 'victim', the deserted wife
with three screaming kids in the wrong colours really adds to the effect
and she hardly needs to act!
Sicilian 'Mafiosi types' often look good in dark blue suits with white
shirts, so dressing them in browns and camels makes them look more sinister.
Conversely, put a yellow -based man into blue and white and he turns into
the perfect dodgy second hand car dealer.
The image or style part is to do with our body architecture; whether we
are straight and angular, curvaceous and soft or anything in between.
The balance of yin and yang in the personality is the gem that brings
the whole lot together. This relates to myth, archetype or fairy tale
characters and allows us to celebrate our differences in a wonderfully
non-judgemental way. We need all the characters in the pantomime with
the interactions and relationships to make up a rich and varied life.
There are six main styles and often two are combined to create a clothing
personality.
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Dramatic
Powerful,
dynamic, challenging, mysterious, inspiring with straight, angular
body types.
E.g. Ice Queen, Cat Woman, Snow White's Stepmother
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Classic
Elegant,
sophisticated, reliable, need to get it right, responsible
with straight but not such angular body types
e.g. King/Queen, Duke/Duchess, Head Girl/Boy
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Natural
Friendly,
open, sporty, impulsive, laid back, wild and free with a
more soft curved body.
E.g. Cowboys/girls
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Gamine
Fun,
cheeky, mischievous, boyish, quirky, with neat and petite body types.
E.g. French street urchin, Peter Pan, elves and pixies
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Ingenue
Pretty,
youthful, dainty, attention to detail, elegant, chatty with
delicate, neat body types.
E.g. The princess, Sleeping Beauty, Edwardian, Victorian.
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Romantic
Voluptuous,
glamorous, glitzy, sexy, majestic with curvaceous,
soft body types.
E.g. Earth mother, abundant goddess.
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This is a small flavour of the different images which inevitably manifest
in a multitude of individual combinations. We are talking about style
here rather than fashion and at this time more than any other we have
so much more choice in the way we dress, which is very freeing but sometimes
bewildering.
This
information is available to all of us as an invaluable tool to support
us and add to the richness of our everyday lives. Whether we dress in
a sack or in the colours and styles that suit our clothing personality,
we are still making a statement! Having more understanding of who we
are and how to present this to the outside world brings a congruence
and ease. Knowing we are looking our best gives an amazing feeling of
confidence in our relationships in the world.
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Gilly
Montgomery is a Colour and Image Consultant with the House Of
Colour, an Acupuncturist, and Rebirther Trainer.
In
1997, she founded the Essential Life Skills Training - a multilevel
Rebirther and Relationships training which she now runs with her
husband David.
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